Where'd you go? 10 Day, 14 hour per day retreat? I'm thinking Vipassana but I don't think they do "work."
Phil
· 7 months ago
OK, What was the 10 day course you did? I've seen a few things around that say they shift your paradigm, (none ten days though) and personal recommendation IS usually best. (yes I met you personally in a MM bootcamp in Phoenix 2007....when John was going through his bad stage...yes it showed in the bootcamp haha)
shark
· 7 months ago
I would also like to know what 10D program was that... As for the main theme of the topic and can only agree to everything. :)
WK13
· 7 months ago
Awesome article, Once again Sir CJ!! I would like to thank you for the brilliant audio i purchased on the last post ( to do with mental barriers) I have tried a lot of things but that what you taught well and truly has changed my reality (or the way i perceive it) excellently. I thank you muchly.
Onto this article, i was actually thinking along the same lines about a month ago, but surprise surprise, i never actually COMITTED to it! Funny eh!?! You see, i am honest enough to admit, after reading/watching waaaay too much community stuff, i believed i must not go out to get laid but be the 'fun social guy'. Now theres nothing wrong with the fun social guy but to deny yourself of a real purposeful intention to go out and get laid is ludicrous! Yet, i myself have been following this frustrating path. I am really happy you have highlighted these facts as it never felt right to be just the fun social guy with no sexual intention. I will now go out with Purity of Purpose and Intention to get laid. Thank You once again.
I will now end my long ramblings!! But i would say that the monthly teleconferences sound immense. I unfortunately cannot afford these, due to tough financial situation i am in, but this is no sympathy 'poor old me' plea, it is quite simply an honest view of my situation which i am working on improving! So that i CAN purchase more brilliant CJ audio's.
Thanks for reading ~WK13~
Benedict M. Smith
· 7 months ago
the only way to ascertain whether or not you're getting better is to keep track of the number of approaches and the end results. it can be depressing at first, but over time, if you've got the will to stick through the ego bashing blow outs etc, you'll see improvement. great post.
Richard Brian Penn
· 7 months ago
Cap Jack - Your article is dead on. I can't recall a time that I have ever gone out and gotten laid the same night I met a woman without having the intention of doing so. Yes, there have been a zillion nights that I've just gone out because I wanted to socialize and hang out with my boys and my female friends with no intention of bringing a woman home. Guess what? I didn't :)
Anon
· 7 months ago
10days, its got to be the LandMark Forum.
Ron
· 6 months ago
Wait a minute, wait a minute! You can't just start your post off with "10 full days of continuous mind-melting exposure to new paradigms of thinking and being" and not say where the hell you were. Tell us what that's all about, mate!
Come on, that's like leading us down a path and then shifting us into another venue. Kind of like your Time Bridging habit with women, but we're not women - we're loyal readers.
Bolo
· 6 months ago
You have children? As someone who may or may not be a father soon (Please no) how does a PUA lifestyle and fatherhood max up?
CaptainJack
· 6 months ago
Hey Bolo, don't worry about it... You are designed to be a father.
Set aside specific blocks of time to be with them and when you are with your child focus on him/her 100% -- when you make decisions about your future, keep them squarely in mind.
All Comments
What was the 10 day course you did?
I've seen a few things around that say they shift your paradigm, (none ten days though) and personal recommendation IS usually best.
(yes I met you personally in a MM bootcamp in Phoenix 2007....when John was going through his bad stage...yes it showed in the bootcamp haha)
I would like to thank you for the brilliant audio i purchased on the last post ( to do with mental barriers) I have tried a lot of things but that what you taught well and truly has changed my reality (or the way i perceive it) excellently. I thank you muchly.
Onto this article, i was actually thinking along the same lines about a month ago, but surprise surprise, i never actually COMITTED to it! Funny eh!?!
You see, i am honest enough to admit, after reading/watching waaaay too much community stuff, i believed i must not go out to get laid but be the 'fun social guy'. Now theres nothing wrong with the fun social guy but to deny yourself of a real purposeful intention to go out and get laid is ludicrous! Yet, i myself have been following this frustrating path. I am really happy you have highlighted these facts as it never felt right to be just the fun social guy with no sexual intention. I will now go out with Purity of Purpose and Intention to get laid. Thank You once again.
I will now end my long ramblings!! But i would say that the monthly teleconferences sound immense. I unfortunately cannot afford these, due to tough financial situation i am in, but this is no sympathy 'poor old me' plea, it is quite simply an honest view of my situation which i am working on improving! So that i CAN purchase more brilliant CJ audio's.
Thanks for reading
~WK13~
Come on, that's like leading us down a path and then shifting us into another venue. Kind of like your Time Bridging habit with women, but we're not women - we're loyal readers.
Set aside specific blocks of time to be with them and when you are with your child focus on him/her 100% -- when you make decisions about your future, keep them squarely in mind.
CJ